In Between Two Lovers
"Torn between two lovers feeling like a fool, loving both of you breaking all the rules" (Mary MacGregor).
Have you ever experienced being in love with a man and then while waiting for him, here comes another guy trying very hard to get your attention?
At first, you will feel that it's exciting, won't you? But then, when you're already in that situation, would you still feel it that way?
How would you feel if you're in that kind of situation? Well, all of us know that it’s sort of complicated, right? But then, why do people continuously fall for more than one person at the same time? Here's what we're going to find out.
Studies show that humans are capable of loving and having sex with more than one person at the same time. Well, that's pretty obvious, nowadays, as we can see these things around the globe every single day.
The following are the three (3) possible things that might engage one person to loving another person while he/she is still committed to another:
A lot of people, nowadays, want someone who can fulfill their needs. Let's just say for an instance in a relationship, when there's a conflict between a couple, one of them would somehow feel a sudden emptiness that, they think, needs to be filled immediately. Of course, they would want someone who will comfort them when they become depressed.
2. Finds Someone Better
We cannot deny to ourselves that comparison comes in when you find yourself loved by two people, can you? When you accept the invitation of such thing, you cannot resist spotting the difference between them. And, we're like a customer choosing between two products, and we all know that what we're going to select is the better one.
3. Lacks Attention
When your partner continuously ignores you, you will think if there's something wrong you did, right? And, then you keep on asking him/her to discuss it with your partner, but he/she refuses your requests on doing so. People in this kind of situation get confused if there's still love existing in their relationship or not. Doubt will exist, too, making it a lot more complicated.
The aforementioned are just the three things we could clearly point out if you're trying to know the major causes of arriving into this kind of phenomena. However, you could still block it away only if you have enough confidence on your partner that he/she won't look at other people. Also, if you will practice self-discipline, and then learn to be contented on what you have in your relationship.